Depending on the composition of the relatives are the following types of families:
is a simple family — couple with children, unmarried;
– advanced, or complex family — if some of the children are married; may include three or more generations living together and linked by common management;
– full family is composed of both spouses;
– incomplete family in which one spouse is absent.
Some of these families is best suited for the education, it is impossible to answer unequivocally. In any one of them have their advantages and disadvantages. For example, in an ordinary family children get used to more independence, but it quickly violated the tradition of generations in comparison with the extended family. In comparison with the full family, single-parent family education is complicated by reducing the material level of the family and overload of the parent with whom left children. However, children in such families are imbued with sympathy for the remaining parent, become more emotionally intimate and responsible.
The diversity of the families are classified by type relations between adults and children, as well as by the degree of their tension and consequences effects on children:
Family, respectful children. In such families, relationships Continue reading
Parents wonder why their child is lying, because in their family, this behavior is not practiced.Other parents just burn with shame for their child, lie their baby becomes public property, have already learned teachers or educators. There are among parents and those who are completely deluded by their child’s behavior. They admit that they don’t know what to believe and what not.
But what would have been the reaction of parents to lie to children, the ratio is always unambiguously negative. And the question of what to do and how to wean the child to lie, to tell lies and mislead others in, is very relevant.
A psychologist come when all known methods have been tried. A request or an order “Stop lying!”, the child was ignored, physical punishment does not have the desired effect, and the threats were not heeded. To understand what to do in situations when your child is cheating, let’s see, why and why he does it.
As I said, children lying is a very common phenomenon, but in each case it’s always a unique story. However, in most cases, a lie is a consequence Continue reading
A variety of parenting techniques, parents can apply depending on the characteristics, behaviour and age of the child. To apply and to choose the methods of parents depends on their level of psychological and pedagogical knowledge, and how they themselves were brought up, etc.
The choice of methods of education of children affected by the behavior of parents, who may be ambivalent, authoritarian and democratic.
These methods form not only a Mature person, complete harmony, they sometimes become the cause of various psychological complexes.
The main methods used in the education of children.
Method of persuasion and conversation. This method is used in the education of children with any character and at different ages. In conversation with children, parents argue and explain how to properly maintain in a variety of situations, figuring out the motivations of the child. The tone of the conversation parents have to be firm and confident calm. Even kids at the age of one year, not knowing how else to respond, carefully listen to their parents, responding to their intonation.
Method of positive reinforcement. Reinforcements are some parental actions that follow his deeds and actions. Reinforcement is positive (positive) and negative. Positive reinforcement we include Continue reading