Parents wonder why their child is lying, because in their family, this behavior is not practiced.Other parents just burn with shame for their child, lie their baby becomes public property, have already learned teachers or educators. There are among parents and those who are completely deluded by their child’s behavior. They admit that they don’t know what to believe and what not.
But what would have been the reaction of parents to lie to children, the ratio is always unambiguously negative. And the question of what to do and how to wean the child to lie, to tell lies and mislead others in, is very relevant.
A psychologist come when all known methods have been tried. A request or an order “Stop lying!”, the child was ignored, physical punishment does not have the desired effect, and the threats were not heeded. To understand what to do in situations when your child is cheating, let’s see, why and why he does it.
As I said, children lying is a very common phenomenon, but in each case it’s always a unique story. However, in most cases, a lie is a consequence Continue reading
Today, many parents want to provide their child with the harmonious and comprehensive development. But to understand all the stream rushed upon us like an avalanche systems and methods is very difficult. Doman’s cards, cubes Zaitseva, Waldorf system, the Montessori method. the list is long.
So how not to get lost in all this variety?
First of all, you need to clearly understand what a particular method. And then to make an informed decision. In this article we will discuss now one of the most popular systems of education and development of the child — the Montessori method.
The author is Maria Montessori (1870-1952), an Italian educator and humanist. The most important, fundamental, and conveys the essence of the method is the motto. “Help me to do it myself” .
The great importance of Maria Montessori gave the period of development of the baby from 0 to 6 years. It is believed that during this period is the most intense development of the child, during which there are special times when the baby is particularly susceptible to any particular activity.
And if at this auspicious time with a child will not be necessary for the development Continue reading
In Kiev kindergartens deficit not only places but also normal workers.
“The child broke a finger in the kindergarten”, “ate mushrooms from the stump, and the teacher didn’t notice”, “the teacher hit the boy”, “I went on record, while the panties wet” – can’t argue that this is a trend, but for such cases, parents talk more often. But punish the guilty less. Parents often don’t want to inflate scandal. I’m afraid their child then none of the garden will not accept. Some moms are not afraid to tell “the Newspaper on-Kiev” on how to “education” in their kindergartens.
“I said, “set down!”
Aliona Saenko in September gave a two year old daughter in the garden at Obolon, but took a month, he feared for her health.
In the garden there were strange rules. In the morning, the teacher took the child from the locker room. The children began to cry. Parents could not even go to the group, to stay with the child until he calms down. Caregivers explained that a long separation further traumatize the child, – tells Alain. – Someday came early for the child.
Our group was on mazzarati. Decided to crack to peek and see what they do. Kids (kids in the group from one and a half years to three) lined up in one line, murabitin played the piano and told what Continue reading