” Mom, I’m scared! — with a shout and cry ran into the parent’s bedroom a little Pasha. Clinging to his mother’s breast, he babbled:
— There… dark… under the bed… terrible…
Mom put her son beside him, patted on the head, and he immediately fell asleep.
— Lisa, so not, — said in a whisper dad, Anatoly Vasiliev. — so You will want to grow up the son of a weakling and a rag. Nothing to appease his fears. Or do you want him to 18 years old slept with us in the same bed?
— what do you suggest? — offended Lisa. — to Lock him in the room — and let him cry into hysterics? You know, better to let the wuss and wuss than neurotic or schizophrenic.
— I Agree, this is also not an option. But then what to do?
— Go to sleep… Tomorrow go ask your mom. It is after all a teacher has worked all her life, have an understanding of child psychology.
The next day on a visit to Vasiliev came grandmother, Elena. After playing with his grandson and putting him for a NAP, she listened to the arguments of both parents, smiled and began her story. — Ah, youth, how I understand you. Because the problem of children’s fears faced by all parents, and my grandfather is no exception. Here you are, Continue reading
Your child falls under all 10 signs «Indigo»? And you bring up?
The term «Indigo» first appeared in the late 90s thanks to a female psychic Nancy Ann tappe, who claimed that these «new» kids purple aura color, Indigo. Supposedly came to earth new extraterrestrial generation of people. And with its easy hand pseudoscientific term was used to name the kids, which combines a high level of intelligence with extraordinary sensitivity, besides allegedly telepathic abilities are complementary to each other. Today about Indigo filmed many movies and many books, but no scientific proof of the correctness of the psychic, of course not. So who are still children, Indigo?
«Indigo» — buzzword or reality?
All signs Indigo (10) psychiatrists and teachers relate more to the usual hyperactivity, which have many children. But psychologists believe that the term «Indigo» is a kind of convenient excuse for parents who simply can not cope with the child. And especially popularly called «Indigo» their offspring in a rich family, where the latter is out of bounds, but somehow to affect them educationally does not work. «He I – Indigo» proudly declare such moms and dads dazed by the audacity and unscrupulousness master kids guest.
And, interestingly, every other mom, as soon as procet a list of signs Continue reading
Child stealing — fairly common problem frightening for any parent who is faced with it. Although almost any child, including their own parents in childhood, at least once took someone else’s: adults usually tend to panic if it happens to their child.
There are several reasons why children steal:
If this little kid, 3–4 years, he usually is not aware of boundaries: where’s your, where someone else. In this age of child stealing cannot even be called such a term, because the child is not aware of property boundaries.
Not high enough self-esteem of the child. This child thinks that the other is always better.
The motivation is to attract the attention of peers: the child has no relations with peers — in the kindergarten, at school, in the yard, and the child, finding no other solution, you may take the money and buy a variety of sweets, treat all these friends, getting the attention and recognition he so wanted and waited. Typically, these thefts tend to make children 6–8 years and adolescents.
Theft may be a way of self-affirmation of the child, and this is also a signal of distress, when the child does not feel enough love of parents towards him or even each other.
Another reason for theft: the desire Continue reading