Parents and children
Our instinctive love of children (ethologists would say — parental care) we are not alone in the animal world. In many species, parents attached to their children. Often, it is only to his own. Gull, great mom, biting and can even kill the alien chick, wandered on her colognebuy territory. And to wander long in the colony, all nests nearby. There are people (and quite a lot of them, usually they just hide it) who also love their children. But in most people there is another love — the love of children in General. Other people’s children. And this, from the point of view of the instinctive programs, not one and the same. When it originated and what was? This is a very interesting story, and it leads us to the emergence of man. Our closest relatives — the great apes — the way of life of its collectors, and as our direct ancestors. They don’t live in herds, and a very small kinship groups. And it is clear: major collector to anything big, hard-organized herd. Everyone gathers for himself, and not a lot of food will collect, collect if around others. You have many instinctive programs corresponding to this lifestyle: territorialism with his desire not to let outsiders into their territory, the instinct Continue reading
To lose weight after giving birth — this problem concerns every woman. once parous. The joy of long-awaited birth of a baby is sometimes accompanied by sorrow over recruited during the pregnancy pounds. Time passes and the excess weight goes away. How to lose weight after childbirth?
About this readers MedPulse tells the doctor the lion Sanchakou.
— Why is this happening? Why you have to think about how to lose weight after childbirth?
— Start with the fact that not all mothers are overweight while waiting for the child and are thinking about losing weight after childbirth. Physiological norms, during pregnancy a woman can gain about 8-10 pounds. From them, she naturally gets rid of during childbirth and the postpartum period. But, unfortunately, very often moms exceed this figure, gaining up to 20 extra pounds while waiting for the child. And so to return to your normal weight and lose weight after childbirth becomes difficult.
There are several reasons. First, it is believed that the expectant mother should eat as much as possible — “for two”. So many women during pregnancy cease to follow a balanced diet and allow yourself to relax, earning it the needs of the future baby. But this is not so. Moreover, the mother is gaining weight, significantly increases the load Continue reading
Parents wonder why their child is lying, because in their family, this behavior is not practiced.Other parents just burn with shame for their child, lie their baby becomes public property, have already learned teachers or educators. There are among parents and those who are completely deluded by their child’s behavior. They admit that they don’t know what to believe and what not.
But what would have been the reaction of parents to lie to children, the ratio is always unambiguously negative. And the question of what to do and how to wean the child to lie, to tell lies and mislead others in, is very relevant.
A psychologist come when all known methods have been tried. A request or an order “Stop lying!”, the child was ignored, physical punishment does not have the desired effect, and the threats were not heeded. To understand what to do in situations when your child is cheating, let’s see, why and why he does it.
As I said, children lying is a very common phenomenon, but in each case it’s always a unique story. However, in most cases, a lie is a consequence Continue reading