” Mom, I’m scared! — with a shout and cry ran into the parent’s bedroom a little Pasha. Clinging to his mother’s breast, he babbled:
— There… dark… under the bed… terrible…
Mom put her son beside him, patted on the head, and he immediately fell asleep.
— Lisa, so not, — said in a whisper dad, Anatoly Vasiliev. — so You will want to grow up the son of a weakling and a rag. Nothing to appease his fears. Or do you want him to 18 years old slept with us in the same bed?
— what do you suggest? — offended Lisa. — to Lock him in the room — and let him cry into hysterics? You know, better to let the wuss and wuss than neurotic or schizophrenic.
— I Agree, this is also not an option. But then what to do?
— Go to sleep… Tomorrow go ask your mom. It is after all a teacher has worked all her life, have an understanding of child psychology.
The next day on a visit to Vasiliev came grandmother, Elena. After playing with his grandson and putting him for a NAP, she listened to the arguments of both parents, smiled and began her story. — Ah, youth, how I understand you. Because the problem of children’s fears faced by all parents, and my grandfather is no exception. Here you are, Continue reading
Parenting is one of the key parental tasks, which, as a complex mathematical equation may have many solutions.
Parenting is one of the key parental tasks, which, as a complex mathematical equation may have many solutions. Ways and means of solving this very difficult and responsible tasks are called methods of education. Depending on the age of the child, his behavior and personality, parents can apply a variety of methods of education. The choice of parents used methods of education largely depends on how the parents themselves were brought up, how is the level of pedagogical and psychological knowledge, also largely depends on what values a priority for the family, how parents realize the importance of education and the role assigned to them.
Important role when choosing methods of education is the parent’s behavior, which can be authoritarian, a complacent and democratic.
Parenting techniques not only allow to create a harmonious, Mature personality, sometimes they become the causes of many psychological complexes.
Basic methods of education
Method conversation or beliefs . This method can be applied in the education of children of different ages and with any character. Continue reading
Your child falls under all 10 signs «Indigo»? And you bring up?
The term «Indigo» first appeared in the late 90s thanks to a female psychic Nancy Ann tappe, who claimed that these «new» kids purple aura color, Indigo. Supposedly came to earth new extraterrestrial generation of people. And with its easy hand pseudoscientific term was used to name the kids, which combines a high level of intelligence with extraordinary sensitivity, besides allegedly telepathic abilities are complementary to each other. Today about Indigo filmed many movies and many books, but no scientific proof of the correctness of the psychic, of course not. So who are still children, Indigo?
«Indigo» — buzzword or reality?
All signs Indigo (10) psychiatrists and teachers relate more to the usual hyperactivity, which have many children. But psychologists believe that the term «Indigo» is a kind of convenient excuse for parents who simply can not cope with the child. And especially popularly called «Indigo» their offspring in a rich family, where the latter is out of bounds, but somehow to affect them educationally does not work. «He I – Indigo» proudly declare such moms and dads dazed by the audacity and unscrupulousness master kids guest.
And, interestingly, every other mom, as soon as procet a list of signs Continue reading