Fear is inherent in every person on the planet. It can be reasoned or instinctive. However, what children fear? And how to get rid of it?
In infancy, we experience the fear of unfamiliar people or the smells, unexpected sounds. With age, the range of fears grew, and new, subjective factors that can trigger the appearance of phobias. Even a trip to the nursery or kindergarten is fraught with the development of fear of letting their parents. So Hiking in such institutions are easily tolerated in children with a low level of emotional development.
However, as with everything in this world, the fear can be combated. First of all, give the child such a powerful weapon as the imagination: if his fears a dream, then, and fight with them will have it too fancy. When you have fear of the dark, certain people, animals should lead the child to believe that by defeating the fears in his imagination, he defeated them in reality. Let Your child mentally several times I repeat the action, which is afraid, always with a positive outcome. Then try to overcome the fear in reality. Do not despair if You do not succeed the first time.
Among other things, the cause of phobias may be a trivial lack of awareness. This may be ignorance and misconception of any subject or phenomenon, on the basis of which Continue reading
For many owners of one-bedroom apartments accommodation in a constant shortage of living space is a necessity, which is reinforced by dreams of more spacious rooms with elegant interior. And if young couples are somehow to huddle in one room, when a child can sometimes be a disaster with equipment children’s and adult bedrooms in one area. Therefore, in this situation, you can purchase a house with a larger area that for many is currently not feasible, but it is better to change the interior Studio apartment available for family with a child so that managed to place all the necessary furniture in the most efficient manner. From the thoughtfulness of the design project depends on many things: freedom, the brevity of the interior and visual perception of the environment, and therefore the approach to its formation should be thorough.
The main objectives for the design project
In the first place you should seek individual personal spaces for parent and child. And if in the preschool period of life he will be able to settle for a small room, with age having their interests and personal life, which in no way should interfere with the lives of adults. Naturally, with age the designs Continue reading
I want parents to their beloved child, growing up, from year to year made samostoyatelna? Still! Independence preschool child – this trait is highly appreciated, but many father and mother approve of child’s independence only when it is relevant for them.
Independence of a child strangled by parents!
“Yes let them grow up free and independent, but obey mom and dad, because our word is law!”
This Directive maintains an internal contradiction. Because the notion of children’s autonomy involves the ability to make decisions yourself, and not under a bushel of someone’s tips and thoughts.
Violent protests adults is usually justified by the fact that their son or daughter lacks the life experience.
However, as the boy and girl run the risk of never receive the proper skills (and make friends with immaturity) if under any circumstances to think and decide for them will be caring parents.
Children’s independence and initiative
Of course, dads and moms with a certain degree of fear waiting for the moment when the ship is their baby, giving one a tiny mooring rope, becomes a little more independent from parent’s Wharf.
Their blood, their piece begins to separate! Extremely painful Continue reading