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Child steals: causes

Child theft is the so-called “shameful” problems. For any parent this is usually a shock: the child in the family because no one teaches them to steal, and he takes someone else’s…

This child’s behavior is perceived by the family as evidence of his incurable immorality. “We have no one in the family never did!” — I often hear from those affected relatives. Not only that, the child shames the family, the parents of his future is solely criminal. Though actually, in most cases, it’s not all bad.

The idea of what is “mine” and “theirs”, appears after three years, when he begins to develop a sense of self. Nobody in their right mind would call a thief two-three-year-old, who took without asking anyone’s thing. But the older the child, the more likely that his act would be regarded as an attempt to misappropriate, in other words — as “theft”.

The age of the child in such situation is conclusive evidence of awareness of the committed, although it is not always true. (There are known cases, when children are seven or eight years didn’t realize that by adopting someone’s thing, they violate the generally accepted norms, but sometimes, I have five children, committing theft, well aware that doing bad).

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The boy’s Upbringing: main rules

Ideally, most parents expect the boy’s education will lead to the establishment of a real man. But “running the show” not only the parents, although their behavior can often be the determining factor.

The main task of parents is to promote effective, positive development of the child and gain their own perspective ways. Taking account of raising a boy would be essential.

The current model for men is different. The boy’s education should be geared to this. Today a man must have is not so much physical force, mind and intelligence to succeed. In addition, modern boys can be trained and work around the house. Women, their future lady, assumed some of the financial worries, removing the sole responsibility with men for the family’s prosperity. It is also important to teach the current boys to family values, to the upbringing of future children. In current time the father’s influence on children’s lives, starting with preparation for birth and the birth itself, increases. Successful man today is a worthy dad. For a boy it is important the large space and physical activity. Arrange in a room, sports area, go out often on the Playground with a ball or go for a walk on bikes, on roller skates. Boys, like men, tend to unite. Let this Association Continue reading

Love and attention to the child

The love for a child – the infinite, sincere and full of feeling. And above all it must come from both parents, to be a real, strong, clear, only then it can be considered complete.

Whatever it was this love, she will never be over, as long as it was manifested in abundance. Always tell your child how much you love it, praise and appreciate him for the work done, talk about how you are happy that you have it. Exactly this love is not enough children from orphanages, these children often get sick and fall behind. Each of us can help these children and to carry a piece of your attention, love and care . Even if it will manifest itself in all sorts of Goodies, sweets, from which no child will refuse. You can also bring to the orphanage toys, new things or clothes your child, from which it grew. Your children’s flea market will be adopted with a Bang!

Scientists believe that abandoned children suddenly die in infancy from lack of parental love and affection, attention and care. Never believe what a parent’s love spoils and pampers children, only your permissiveness, the lack of rules and boundaries contributes to the disobedience of the baby. Therefore, to avoid this it is necessary to correct children’s early development.

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The education of the child according to the Montessori method
Today, many parents want to provide their child with the harmonious and comprehensive development. But to understand all the stream rushed upon us like an avalanche systems and methods is…

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The Education of children
A variety of parenting techniques, parents can apply depending on the characteristics, behaviour and age of the child. To apply and to choose the methods of parents depends on their…

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The Formation of personality
The formation of personality . Socialization of personality. It is the family is the primary educator of the child. Not school, not the street, not peers and not psychologists. They…

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