When I come back mentally in my own childhood, I have always before my eyes there is a picture, as I was, still a toddler, playing on the floor with blocks with her older sister. She shows me different pictures shown on different faces of the toy, and I can not understand the principle of the location of the pictures. And trying to find especially liked the Fox with despair roll the dice on the floor and raise it again. I remember my sister taking a toy in his hands, showed me how you can flip the face of the cube, looking favourite. And mine, with nothing comparable to the excitement that I learned how to search for images.
Since then, sad to say, many years, but when I had a daughter I wanted her as often as possible in their childhood experienced the tremendous delight of recognition of something new and unknown. That is why, starting with the first months of her life, I am very actively engaged in developmental activities for children.
The first game
When my daughter was three weeks, I decided it was time to open the front of her magical world of the game. Having tried a whole bunch of various techniques and having studied many of the recommendations that we identified about a dozen games, training which did not require special Continue reading
Feeling a sense of loss, resentment, adolescents still be able to adequately imagine the causes and consequences of divorce, the quality of their relationships with each parent. Boys in most cases, experiencing negative feelings towards his father and strongly attached to his mother. In girls in relation to mother appear critical notes: “For not watching, it is clear why dad left”. Sometimes admire his new girlfriend.
Every parent should discuss with the child his feelings, persuade and words and actions that neither one of the parents will. The child needs to communicate with relatives and mother’s side and father’s side, with their peers, actively participate in public and social life, exercise. It is very important to help the child to find an area of success where children can realize their potential and abilities. This allows you to escape from unpleasant thoughts, enhances self-esteem, does not allow the child to withdraw into themselves.
TIPS FOR PARENTS
v If the divorce was not by mutual consent, if one of the spouses traumatized by the divorce left him, some children are traumatized even more. They see the suffering that dear one them people brought as well a dear person. And love-they are both parents. They can’t be not on any side, and parents often expect the children stand Continue reading
Child theft is the so-called “shameful” problems. For any parent this is usually a shock: the child in the family because no one teaches them to steal, and he takes someone else’s…
This child’s behavior is perceived by the family as evidence of his incurable immorality. “We have no one in the family never did!” — I often hear from those affected relatives. Not only that, the child shames the family, the parents of his future is solely criminal. Though actually, in most cases, it’s not all bad.
The idea of what is “mine” and “theirs”, appears after three years, when he begins to develop a sense of self. Nobody in their right mind would call a thief two-three-year-old, who took without asking anyone’s thing. But the older the child, the more likely that his act would be regarded as an attempt to misappropriate, in other words — as “theft”.
The age of the child in such situation is conclusive evidence of awareness of the committed, although it is not always true. (There are known cases, when children are seven or eight years didn’t realize that by adopting someone’s thing, they violate the generally accepted norms, but sometimes, I have five children, committing theft, well aware that doing bad).
For example, could be considered a thief five year old boy who, feeling great sympathy to his peers, Continue reading