Today, many parents want to provide their child with the harmonious and comprehensive development. But to understand all the stream rushed upon us like an avalanche systems and methods is very difficult. Doman’s cards, cubes Zaitseva, Waldorf system, the Montessori method. the list is long.
So how not to get lost in all this variety?
First of all, you need to clearly understand what a particular method. And then to make an informed decision. In this article we will discuss now one of the most popular systems of education and development of the child — the Montessori method.
The author is Maria Montessori (1870-1952), an Italian educator and humanist. The most important, fundamental, and conveys the essence of the method is the motto. “Help me to do it myself” .
The great importance of Maria Montessori gave the period of development of the baby from 0 to 6 years. It is believed that during this period is the most intense development of the child, during which there are special times when the baby is particularly susceptible to any particular activity.
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The formation of personality . Socialization of personality. It is the family is the primary educator of the child. Not school, not the street, not peers and not psychologists. They can correct a child’s behavior, but the effect of their influence is directly proportional to the influence of those closest to you.
From early childhood, from moms and dads, grandmas and grandpas the person learns the patterns of behavior, attitudes, values, knowledge and skills, which later comes into society.
And how he was raised, socialized, influence on how the child will become in the future – confident or infantile, good or evil, peaceful or aggressive.
Who affect the child?
The formation of personality . socialization – this is the main task of parents in the upbringing of the child. The major and most challenging! Maybe because hardly anyone of us is professional. Even professionals, mistakes can happen. What can we say about such a complex profession as mother and father, which is nowhere taught.
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Fear is inherent in every person on the planet. It can be reasoned or instinctive. However, what children fear? And how to get rid of it?
In infancy, we experience the fear of unfamiliar people or the smells, unexpected sounds. With age, the range of fears grew, and new, subjective factors that can trigger the appearance of phobias. Even a trip to the nursery or kindergarten is fraught with the development of fear of letting their parents. So Hiking in such institutions are easily tolerated in children with a low level of emotional development.
However, as with everything in this world, the fear can be combated. First of all, give the child such a powerful weapon as the imagination: if his fears a dream, then, and fight with them will have it too fancy. When you have fear of the dark, certain people, animals should lead the child to believe that by defeating the fears in his imagination, he defeated them in reality. Let Your child mentally several times I repeat the action, which is afraid, always with a positive outcome. Then try to overcome the fear in reality. Do not despair if You do not succeed the first time.
Among other things, the cause of phobias may be a trivial lack of awareness. This may be ignorance and misconception of any subject or phenomenon, on the basis of which Continue reading