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Divorce parents.

Feeling a sense of loss, resentment, adolescents still be able to adequately imagine the causes and consequences of divorce, the quality of their relationships with each parent. Boys in most cases, experiencing negative feelings towards his father and strongly attached to his mother. In girls in relation to mother appear critical notes: “For not watching, it is clear why dad left”. Sometimes admire his new girlfriend.

Every parent should discuss with the child his feelings, persuade and words and actions that neither one of the parents will. The child needs to communicate with relatives and mother’s side and father’s side, with their peers, actively participate in public and social life, exercise. It is very important to help the child to find an area of success where children can realize their potential and abilities. This allows you to escape from unpleasant thoughts, enhances self-esteem, does not allow the child to withdraw into themselves.

TIPS FOR PARENTS

v If the divorce was not by mutual consent, if one of the spouses traumatized by the divorce left him, some children are traumatized even more. They see the suffering that dear one them people brought as well a dear person. And love-they are both parents. They can’t be not on any side, and parents often expect the children stand Continue reading

The Child after the divorce.

Going to file for divorce and want a minor child is left to live with You, because they have the best material and housing conditions? Go towards the court? It is possible.

Family code of the Russian Federation establishes the right of the child to live and grow up in a family, to know their parents and to be cared for by parents and shared with them accommodation, but often in our lives, the opposite is true, and parents have to divorce.

According to article 61 of the Family code “ Parents have equal rights and bear equal responsibilities towards their children (parental right) ”. If the parents cannot come to an agreement about the exercise of parental rights, the dispute is settled by the court, upon the request of one or both parents, with the participation of body of guardianship and guardianship. To disputes connected with education of children: the debate about the place of residence of the child when the parents live apart (paragraph 3 of article 65 of the RF IC); on the implementation of the parental rights of the parent living separately from the child (paragraph 2 of article 66 of the family code); the elimination of obstacles to communicating with a child of his close relatives ( section 3 of article 67 of the family code); the return of the child’s parents held not on the basis of law or judicial Continue reading

Child steals: causes

Child theft is the so-called “shameful” problems. For any parent this is usually a shock: the child in the family because no one teaches them to steal, and he takes someone else’s…

This child’s behavior is perceived by the family as evidence of his incurable immorality. “We have no one in the family never did!” — I often hear from those affected relatives. Not only that, the child shames the family, the parents of his future is solely criminal. Though actually, in most cases, it’s not all bad.

The idea of what is “mine” and “theirs”, appears after three years, when he begins to develop a sense of self. Nobody in their right mind would call a thief two-three-year-old, who took without asking anyone’s thing. But the older the child, the more likely that his act would be regarded as an attempt to misappropriate, in other words — as “theft”.

The age of the child in such situation is conclusive evidence of awareness of the committed, although it is not always true. (There are known cases, when children are seven or eight years didn’t realize that by adopting someone’s thing, they violate the generally accepted norms, but sometimes, I have five children, committing theft, well aware that doing bad).

For example, could be considered a thief five year old boy who, feeling great sympathy to his peers, Continue reading

Why the child is lying?
Every parent sooner or later wonders why his child is lying. Because no one teaches children to lie, but on the contrary, from early childhood, parents try to impart positive…

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