Parents and children
Our instinctive love of children (ethologists would say — parental care) we are not alone in the animal world. In many species, parents attached to their children. Often, it is only to his own. Gull, great mom, biting and can even kill the alien chick, wandered on her colognebuy territory. And to wander long in the colony, all nests nearby. There are people (and quite a lot of them, usually they just hide it) who also love their children. But in most people there is another love — the love of children in General. Other people’s children. And this, from the point of view of the instinctive programs, not one and the same. When it originated and what was? This is a very interesting story, and it leads us to the emergence of man. Our closest relatives — the great apes — the way of life of its collectors, and as our direct ancestors. They don’t live in herds, and a very small kinship groups. And it is clear: major collector to anything big, hard-organized herd. Everyone gathers for himself, and not a lot of food will collect, collect if around others. You have many instinctive programs corresponding to this lifestyle: territorialism with his desire not to let outsiders into their territory, the instinct Continue reading
The love for a child – the infinite, sincere and full of feeling. And above all it must come from both parents, to be a real, strong, clear, only then it can be considered complete.
Whatever it was this love, she will never be over, as long as it was manifested in abundance. Always tell your child how much you love it, praise and appreciate him for the work done, talk about how you are happy that you have it. Exactly this love is not enough children from orphanages, these children often get sick and fall behind. Each of us can help these children and to carry a piece of your attention, love and care . Even if it will manifest itself in all sorts of Goodies, sweets, from which no child will refuse. You can also bring to the orphanage toys, new things or clothes your child, from which it grew. Your children’s flea market will be adopted with a Bang!
Scientists believe that abandoned children suddenly die in infancy from lack of parental love and affection, attention and care. Never believe what a parent’s love spoils and pampers children, only your permissiveness, the lack of rules and boundaries contributes to the disobedience of the baby. Therefore, to avoid this it is necessary to correct children’s early development.
A variety of parenting techniques, parents can apply depending on the characteristics, behaviour and age of the child. To apply and to choose the methods of parents depends on their level of psychological and pedagogical knowledge, and how they themselves were brought up, etc.
The choice of methods of education of children affected by the behavior of parents, who may be ambivalent, authoritarian and democratic.
These methods form not only a Mature person, complete harmony, they sometimes become the cause of various psychological complexes.
The main methods used in the education of children.
Method of persuasion and conversation. This method is used in the education of children with any character and at different ages. In conversation with children, parents argue and explain how to properly maintain in a variety of situations, figuring out the motivations of the child. The tone of the conversation parents have to be firm and confident calm. Even kids at the age of one year, not knowing how else to respond, carefully listen to their parents, responding to their intonation.
Method of positive reinforcement. Reinforcements are some parental actions that follow his deeds and actions. Reinforcement is positive (positive) and negative. Positive reinforcement we include Continue reading