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Types of families and especially their effects on children

Depending on the composition of the relatives are the following types of families:

is a simple family — couple with children, unmarried;

– advanced, or complex family — if some of the children are married; may include three or more generations living together and linked by common management;

– full family is composed of both spouses;

– incomplete family in which one spouse is absent.

Some of these families is best suited for the education, it is impossible to answer unequivocally. In any one of them have their advantages and disadvantages. For example, in an ordinary family children get used to more independence, but it quickly violated the tradition of generations in comparison with the extended family. In comparison with the full family, single-parent family education is complicated by reducing the material level of the family and overload of the parent with whom left children. However, children in such families are imbued with sympathy for the remaining parent, become more emotionally intimate and responsible.

The diversity of the families are classified by type relations between adults and children, as well as by the degree of their tension and consequences effects on children:

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What to do if your child is cheating?

Parents wonder why their child is lying, because in their family, this behavior is not practiced.Other parents just burn with shame for their child, lie their baby becomes public property, have already learned teachers or educators. There are among parents and those who are completely deluded by their child’s behavior. They admit that they don’t know what to believe and what not.

But what would have been the reaction of parents to lie to children, the ratio is always unambiguously negative. And the question of what to do and how to wean the child to lie, to tell lies and mislead others in, is very relevant.

A psychologist come when all known methods have been tried. A request or an order “Stop lying!”, the child was ignored, physical punishment does not have the desired effect, and the threats were not heeded. To understand what to do in situations when your child is cheating, let’s see, why and why he does it.

As I said, children lying is a very common phenomenon, but in each case it’s always a unique story. However, in most cases, a lie is a consequence Continue reading

Childhood fears

 

Fear is inherent in every person on the planet. It can be reasoned or instinctive. However, what children fear? And how to get rid of it?

In infancy, we experience the fear of unfamiliar people or the smells, unexpected sounds. With age, the range of fears grew, and new, subjective factors that can trigger the appearance of phobias. Even a trip to the nursery or kindergarten is fraught with the development of fear of letting their parents. So Hiking in such institutions are easily tolerated in children with a low level of emotional development.

However, as with everything in this world, the fear can be combated. First of all, give the child such a powerful weapon as the imagination: if his fears a dream, then, and fight with them will have it too fancy. When you have fear of the dark, certain people, animals should lead the child to believe that by defeating the fears in his imagination, he defeated them in reality. Let Your child mentally several times I repeat the action, which is afraid, always with a positive outcome. Then try to overcome the fear in reality. Do not despair if You do not succeed the first time.

Among other things, the cause of phobias may be a trivial lack of awareness. This may be ignorance and misconception of any subject or phenomenon, on the basis of which Continue reading

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