Child theft is the so-called “shameful” problems. For any parent this is usually a shock: the child in the family because no one teaches them to steal, and he takes someone else’s…
This child’s behavior is perceived by the family as evidence of his incurable immorality. “We have no one in the family never did!” — I often hear from those affected relatives. Not only that, the child shames the family, the parents of his future is solely criminal. Though actually, in most cases, it’s not all bad.
The idea of what is “mine” and “theirs”, appears after three years, when he begins to develop a sense of self. Nobody in their right mind would call a thief two-three-year-old, who took without asking anyone’s thing. But the older the child, the more likely that his act would be regarded as an attempt to misappropriate, in other words — as “theft”.
The age of the child in such situation is conclusive evidence of awareness of the committed, although it is not always true. (There are known cases, when children are seven or eight years didn’t realize that by adopting someone’s thing, they violate the generally accepted norms, but sometimes, I have five children, committing theft, well aware that doing bad).
For example, could be considered a thief five year old boy who, feeling great sympathy to his peers, Continue reading
Depending on the composition of the relatives are the following types of families:
is a simple family — couple with children, unmarried;
– advanced, or complex family — if some of the children are married; may include three or more generations living together and linked by common management;
– full family is composed of both spouses;
– incomplete family in which one spouse is absent.
Some of these families is best suited for the education, it is impossible to answer unequivocally. In any one of them have their advantages and disadvantages. For example, in an ordinary family children get used to more independence, but it quickly violated the tradition of generations in comparison with the extended family. In comparison with the full family, single-parent family education is complicated by reducing the material level of the family and overload of the parent with whom left children. However, children in such families are imbued with sympathy for the remaining parent, become more emotionally intimate and responsible.
The diversity of the families are classified by type relations between adults and children, as well as by the degree of their tension and consequences effects on children:
Family, respectful children. In such families, relationships Continue reading
Parents wonder why their child is lying, because in their family, this behavior is not practiced.Other parents just burn with shame for their child, lie their baby becomes public property, have already learned teachers or educators. There are among parents and those who are completely deluded by their child’s behavior. They admit that they don’t know what to believe and what not.
But what would have been the reaction of parents to lie to children, the ratio is always unambiguously negative. And the question of what to do and how to wean the child to lie, to tell lies and mislead others in, is very relevant.
A psychologist come when all known methods have been tried. A request or an order “Stop lying!”, the child was ignored, physical punishment does not have the desired effect, and the threats were not heeded. To understand what to do in situations when your child is cheating, let’s see, why and why he does it.
As I said, children lying is a very common phenomenon, but in each case it’s always a unique story. However, in most cases, a lie is a consequence Continue reading