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Best developmental activities for the child

When I come back mentally in my own childhood, I have always before my eyes there is a picture, as I was, still a toddler, playing on the floor with blocks with her older sister. She shows me different pictures shown on different faces of the toy, and I can not understand the principle of the location of the pictures. And trying to find especially liked the Fox with despair roll the dice on the floor and raise it again. I remember my sister taking a toy in his hands, showed me how you can flip the face of the cube, looking favourite. And mine, with nothing comparable to the excitement that I learned how to search for images.

Since then, sad to say, many years, but when I had a daughter I wanted her as often as possible in their childhood experienced the tremendous delight of recognition of something new and unknown. That is why, starting with the first months of her life, I am very actively engaged in developmental activities for children.

The first game

When my daughter was three weeks, I decided it was time to open the front of her magical world of the game. Having tried a whole bunch of various techniques and having studied many of the recommendations that we identified about a dozen games, training which did not require special Continue reading

The Child after the divorce.

Going to file for divorce and want a minor child is left to live with You, because they have the best material and housing conditions? Go towards the court? It is possible.

Family code of the Russian Federation establishes the right of the child to live and grow up in a family, to know their parents and to be cared for by parents and shared with them accommodation, but often in our lives, the opposite is true, and parents have to divorce.

According to article 61 of the Family code “ Parents have equal rights and bear equal responsibilities towards their children (parental right) ”. If the parents cannot come to an agreement about the exercise of parental rights, the dispute is settled by the court, upon the request of one or both parents, with the participation of body of guardianship and guardianship. To disputes connected with education of children: the debate about the place of residence of the child when the parents live apart (paragraph 3 of article 65 of the RF IC); on the implementation of the parental rights of the parent living separately from the child (paragraph 2 of article 66 of the family code); the elimination of obstacles to communicating with a child of his close relatives ( section 3 of article 67 of the family code); the return of the child’s parents held not on the basis of law or judicial Continue reading

How not to spoil your child?

When Kostya was born, his mom and dad was 35 years. They had to wait a long time before it happened. Accordingly, great was the joy of that now they have a healthy baby. All the attention, warmth and care was intended now only child. His first attempts to crawl met with enthusiastic applause, the first independent steps is even greater glee. So what, you may ask. Is it wrong when the child pay a lot of attention when you give him a sense of security, marvel at it’s first steps? Of course, all this is so. But nevertheless something was done wrong: literally everything that made little Kostya was anxiously discussed, was celebrated as a holiday. He lifted the spoon to her mouth — applause, knocked over something — applause, pulled up his hands to show how big he is, again applause. And relatives happily clapped their hands not only when the coast was able to do something for the first time, but when he did it for the tenth or twentieth time.

The consequences were not long in coming: soon parents felt for Bones important thing is not to hold the spoon, to give the cube or be able to do anything else. He was interested in already not the things themselves, to which he drew attention, but only applause, which was awarded to his behavior.

The disaster broke out, when the mother’s Bones became Continue reading

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