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The Love of parents is the program

Parents and children

Our instinctive love of children (ethologists would say — parental care) we are not alone in the animal world. In many species, parents attached to their children. Often, it is only to his own. Gull, great mom, biting and can even kill the alien chick, wandered on her colognebuy territory. And to wander long in the colony, all nests nearby. There are people (and quite a lot of them, usually they just hide it) who also love their children. But in most people there is another love — the love of children in General. Other people’s children. And this, from the point of view of the instinctive programs, not one and the same. When it originated and what was? This is a very interesting story, and it leads us to the emergence of man. Our closest relatives — the great apes — the way of life of its collectors, and as our direct ancestors. They don’t live in herds, and a very small kinship groups. And it is clear: major collector to anything big, hard-organized herd. Everyone gathers for himself, and not a lot of food will collect, collect if around others. You have many instinctive programs corresponding to this lifestyle: territorialism with his desire not to let outsiders into their territory, the instinct Continue reading

Child Education

Education is the systematic targeting of the child’s adult family members and family structure. The main common task of education – preparing children for life in existing social conditions; more narrow, concrete – mastering of knowledge, abilities and skills required for the normal formation of personality in the family.

Goals and means of education due to the socio-economic structure, level of cultural development; family education is usually based on ideology, morality, and relationships of the social layer to which belongs the family.

Family education is inextricably linked with the self-education of adults, their qualities and character traits that ensure effective teaching impact on children.

It’s okay if to slap the child or give him a slap: not painful and effective. Nobody has ever managed to learn through physical punishment. With it you can only suppress, force, but not to teach. By the way, in the end, the children prefer to get a few licks than listening to the endless cries of parents, reproaches and grunts. So this is only the situation when one nonsense replaces another, not giving a result. Permanent physical punishment inhibit the activity contribute to the development of neuroses and fears that threaten physical and mental development. Moreover, it is forbidden Continue reading

The education of the child according to the Montessori method

Today, many parents want to provide their child with the harmonious and comprehensive development. But to understand all the stream rushed upon us like an avalanche systems and methods is very difficult. Doman’s cards, cubes Zaitseva, Waldorf system, the Montessori method. the list is long.

So how not to get lost in all this variety?

First of all, you need to clearly understand what a particular method. And then to make an informed decision. In this article we will discuss now one of the most popular systems of education and development of the child — the Montessori method.

The method

The author is Maria Montessori (1870-1952), an Italian educator and humanist. The most important, fundamental, and conveys the essence of the method is the motto. “Help me to do it myself” .

The great importance of Maria Montessori gave the period of development of the baby from 0 to 6 years. It is believed that during this period is the most intense development of the child, during which there are special times when the baby is particularly susceptible to any particular activity.

And if at this auspicious time with a child will not be necessary for the development Continue reading

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