Parents wonder why their child is lying, because in their family, this behavior is not practiced.Other parents just burn with shame for their child, lie their baby becomes public property, have already learned teachers or educators. There are among parents and those who are completely deluded by their child’s behavior. They admit that they don’t know what to believe and what not.
But what would have been the reaction of parents to lie to children, the ratio is always unambiguously negative. And the question of what to do and how to wean the child to lie, to tell lies and mislead others in, is very relevant.
A psychologist come when all known methods have been tried. A request or an order “Stop lying!”, the child was ignored, physical punishment does not have the desired effect, and the threats were not heeded. To understand what to do in situations when your child is cheating, let’s see, why and why he does it.
As I said, children lying is a very common phenomenon, but in each case it’s always a unique story. However, in most cases, a lie is a consequence Continue reading
The formation of personality . Socialization of personality. It is the family is the primary educator of the child. Not school, not the street, not peers and not psychologists. They can correct a child’s behavior, but the effect of their influence is directly proportional to the influence of those closest to you.
From early childhood, from moms and dads, grandmas and grandpas the person learns the patterns of behavior, attitudes, values, knowledge and skills, which later comes into society.
And how he was raised, socialized, influence on how the child will become in the future – confident or infantile, good or evil, peaceful or aggressive.
Who affect the child?
The formation of personality . socialization – this is the main task of parents in the upbringing of the child. The major and most challenging! Maybe because hardly anyone of us is professional. Even professionals, mistakes can happen. What can we say about such a complex profession as mother and father, which is nowhere taught.
But to learn this art, you can: if you sincerely want to make Continue reading
Fear is inherent in every person on the planet. It can be reasoned or instinctive. However, what children fear? And how to get rid of it?
In infancy, we experience the fear of unfamiliar people or the smells, unexpected sounds. With age, the range of fears grew, and new, subjective factors that can trigger the appearance of phobias. Even a trip to the nursery or kindergarten is fraught with the development of fear of letting their parents. So Hiking in such institutions are easily tolerated in children with a low level of emotional development.
However, as with everything in this world, the fear can be combated. First of all, give the child such a powerful weapon as the imagination: if his fears a dream, then, and fight with them will have it too fancy. When you have fear of the dark, certain people, animals should lead the child to believe that by defeating the fears in his imagination, he defeated them in reality. Let Your child mentally several times I repeat the action, which is afraid, always with a positive outcome. Then try to overcome the fear in reality. Do not despair if You do not succeed the first time.
Among other things, the cause of phobias may be a trivial lack of awareness. This may be ignorance and misconception of any subject or phenomenon, on the basis of which Continue reading