Child theft is the so-called “shameful” problems. For any parent this is usually a shock: the child in the family because no one teaches them to steal, and he takes someone else’s…
This child’s behavior is perceived by the family as evidence of his incurable immorality. “We have no one in the family never did!” — I often hear from those affected relatives. Not only that, the child shames the family, the parents of his future is solely criminal. Though actually, in most cases, it’s not all bad.
The idea of what is “mine” and “theirs”, appears after three years, when he begins to develop a sense of self. Nobody in their right mind would call a thief two-three-year-old, who took without asking anyone’s thing. But the older the child, the more likely that his act would be regarded as an attempt to misappropriate, in other words — as “theft”.
The age of the child in such situation is conclusive evidence of awareness of the committed, although it is not always true. (There are known cases, when children are seven or eight years didn’t realize that by adopting someone’s thing, they violate the generally accepted norms, but sometimes, I have five children, committing theft, well aware that doing bad).
For example, could be considered a thief five year old boy who, feeling great sympathy to his peers, Continue reading
The love for a child – the infinite, sincere and full of feeling. And above all it must come from both parents, to be a real, strong, clear, only then it can be considered complete.
Whatever it was this love, she will never be over, as long as it was manifested in abundance. Always tell your child how much you love it, praise and appreciate him for the work done, talk about how you are happy that you have it. Exactly this love is not enough children from orphanages, these children often get sick and fall behind. Each of us can help these children and to carry a piece of your attention, love and care . Even if it will manifest itself in all sorts of Goodies, sweets, from which no child will refuse. You can also bring to the orphanage toys, new things or clothes your child, from which it grew. Your children’s flea market will be adopted with a Bang!
Scientists believe that abandoned children suddenly die in infancy from lack of parental love and affection, attention and care. Never believe what a parent’s love spoils and pampers children, only your permissiveness, the lack of rules and boundaries contributes to the disobedience of the baby. Therefore, to avoid this it is necessary to correct children’s early development.
Parents wonder why their child is lying, because in their family, this behavior is not practiced.Other parents just burn with shame for their child, lie their baby becomes public property, have already learned teachers or educators. There are among parents and those who are completely deluded by their child’s behavior. They admit that they don’t know what to believe and what not.
But what would have been the reaction of parents to lie to children, the ratio is always unambiguously negative. And the question of what to do and how to wean the child to lie, to tell lies and mislead others in, is very relevant.
A psychologist come when all known methods have been tried. A request or an order “Stop lying!”, the child was ignored, physical punishment does not have the desired effect, and the threats were not heeded. To understand what to do in situations when your child is cheating, let’s see, why and why he does it.
As I said, children lying is a very common phenomenon, but in each case it’s always a unique story. However, in most cases, a lie is a consequence Continue reading