Your child falls under all 10 signs «Indigo»? And you bring up?
The term «Indigo» first appeared in the late 90s thanks to a female psychic Nancy Ann tappe, who claimed that these «new» kids purple aura color, Indigo. Supposedly came to earth new extraterrestrial generation of people. And with its easy hand pseudoscientific term was used to name the kids, which combines a high level of intelligence with extraordinary sensitivity, besides allegedly telepathic abilities are complementary to each other. Today about Indigo filmed many movies and many books, but no scientific proof of the correctness of the psychic, of course not. So who are still children, Indigo?
«Indigo» — buzzword or reality?
All signs Indigo (10) psychiatrists and teachers relate more to the usual hyperactivity, which have many children. But psychologists believe that the term «Indigo» is a kind of convenient excuse for parents who simply can not cope with the child. And especially popularly called «Indigo» their offspring in a rich family, where the latter is out of bounds, but somehow to affect them educationally does not work. «He I – Indigo» proudly declare such moms and dads dazed by the audacity and unscrupulousness master kids guest.
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Is it really greedy child or he just doesn’t want to share (which is normally perceived, when it comes to adults)? In General, at what age the child is able to divide things on their own and others? Nevertheless, if the baby still does not share with peers how to respond to parents? Needless to accustom to share? How to do it?
“The world is big enough to satisfy the needs of any person, but too small to satisfy human greed.” – M. Gandhi
Define the concept.
The problem of greed the child’s parents first encounter, as a rule, in the sandbox, both literally and figuratively. Starting to think and reason on this subject is very important to understand the meaning of the word. For this, I turned to dictionaries. Summarizing the definition, you can say that. greed is the inordinate desire (feeling) the possession or consumption. This term is better applied to adults than to children. Children inherent egocentrism. Some children get very attached (“attached”) to a toy or some object (this may be an old phone, photo frame, keys…) that just becomes part of the child. The child believes that everything happens for him and he is the reason why this happens. It is difficult to understand that the object that he wants to own may not always be available to him.
Feeling a sense of loss, resentment, adolescents still be able to adequately imagine the causes and consequences of divorce, the quality of their relationships with each parent. Boys in most cases, experiencing negative feelings towards his father and strongly attached to his mother. In girls in relation to mother appear critical notes: “For not watching, it is clear why dad left”. Sometimes admire his new girlfriend.
Every parent should discuss with the child his feelings, persuade and words and actions that neither one of the parents will. The child needs to communicate with relatives and mother’s side and father’s side, with their peers, actively participate in public and social life, exercise. It is very important to help the child to find an area of success where children can realize their potential and abilities. This allows you to escape from unpleasant thoughts, enhances self-esteem, does not allow the child to withdraw into themselves.
TIPS FOR PARENTS
v If the divorce was not by mutual consent, if one of the spouses traumatized by the divorce left him, some children are traumatized even more. They see the suffering that dear one them people brought as well a dear person. And love-they are both parents. They can’t be not on any side, and parents often expect the children stand Continue reading