Parenting is one of the key parental tasks, which, as a complex mathematical equation may have many solutions.
Parenting is one of the key parental tasks, which, as a complex mathematical equation may have many solutions. Ways and means of solving this very difficult and responsible tasks are called methods of education. Depending on the age of the child, his behavior and personality, parents can apply a variety of methods of education. The choice of parents used methods of education largely depends on how the parents themselves were brought up, how is the level of pedagogical and psychological knowledge, also largely depends on what values a priority for the family, how parents realize the importance of education and the role assigned to them.
Important role when choosing methods of education is the parent’s behavior, which can be authoritarian, a complacent and democratic.
Parenting techniques not only allow to create a harmonious, Mature personality, sometimes they become the causes of many psychological complexes.
Basic methods of education
Method conversation or beliefs . This method can be applied in the education of children of different ages and with any character. Continue reading
Feeling a sense of loss, resentment, adolescents still be able to adequately imagine the causes and consequences of divorce, the quality of their relationships with each parent. Boys in most cases, experiencing negative feelings towards his father and strongly attached to his mother. In girls in relation to mother appear critical notes: “For not watching, it is clear why dad left”. Sometimes admire his new girlfriend.
Every parent should discuss with the child his feelings, persuade and words and actions that neither one of the parents will. The child needs to communicate with relatives and mother’s side and father’s side, with their peers, actively participate in public and social life, exercise. It is very important to help the child to find an area of success where children can realize their potential and abilities. This allows you to escape from unpleasant thoughts, enhances self-esteem, does not allow the child to withdraw into themselves.
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v If the divorce was not by mutual consent, if one of the spouses traumatized by the divorce left him, some children are traumatized even more. They see the suffering that dear one them people brought as well a dear person. And love-they are both parents. They can’t be not on any side, and parents often expect the children stand Continue reading
Depending on the composition of the relatives are the following types of families:
is a simple family — couple with children, unmarried;
– advanced, or complex family — if some of the children are married; may include three or more generations living together and linked by common management;
– full family is composed of both spouses;
– incomplete family in which one spouse is absent.
Some of these families is best suited for the education, it is impossible to answer unequivocally. In any one of them have their advantages and disadvantages. For example, in an ordinary family children get used to more independence, but it quickly violated the tradition of generations in comparison with the extended family. In comparison with the full family, single-parent family education is complicated by reducing the material level of the family and overload of the parent with whom left children. However, children in such families are imbued with sympathy for the remaining parent, become more emotionally intimate and responsible.
The diversity of the families are classified by type relations between adults and children, as well as by the degree of their tension and consequences effects on children:
Family, respectful children. In such families, relationships Continue reading