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The education of the child according to the Montessori method

Today, many parents want to provide their child with the harmonious and comprehensive development. But to understand all the stream rushed upon us like an avalanche systems and methods is very difficult. Doman’s cards, cubes Zaitseva, Waldorf system, the Montessori method. the list is long.

So how not to get lost in all this variety?

First of all, you need to clearly understand what a particular method. And then to make an informed decision. In this article we will discuss now one of the most popular systems of education and development of the child — the Montessori method.

The method

The author is Maria Montessori (1870-1952), an Italian educator and humanist. The most important, fundamental, and conveys the essence of the method is the motto. “Help me to do it myself” .

The great importance of Maria Montessori gave the period of development of the baby from 0 to 6 years. It is believed that during this period is the most intense development of the child, during which there are special times when the baby is particularly susceptible to any particular activity.

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Childhood fears

 

Fear is inherent in every person on the planet. It can be reasoned or instinctive. However, what children fear? And how to get rid of it?

In infancy, we experience the fear of unfamiliar people or the smells, unexpected sounds. With age, the range of fears grew, and new, subjective factors that can trigger the appearance of phobias. Even a trip to the nursery or kindergarten is fraught with the development of fear of letting their parents. So Hiking in such institutions are easily tolerated in children with a low level of emotional development.

However, as with everything in this world, the fear can be combated. First of all, give the child such a powerful weapon as the imagination: if his fears a dream, then, and fight with them will have it too fancy. When you have fear of the dark, certain people, animals should lead the child to believe that by defeating the fears in his imagination, he defeated them in reality. Let Your child mentally several times I repeat the action, which is afraid, always with a positive outcome. Then try to overcome the fear in reality. Do not despair if You do not succeed the first time.

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The Autonomy of the child preschool child

I want parents to their beloved child, growing up, from year to year made samostoyatelna? Still! Independence preschool child – this trait is highly appreciated, but many father and mother approve of child’s independence only when it is relevant for them.

Independence of a child strangled by parents!

“Yes let them grow up free and independent, but obey mom and dad, because our word is law!”

This Directive maintains an internal contradiction. Because the notion of children’s autonomy involves the ability to make decisions yourself, and not under a bushel of someone’s tips and thoughts.

Violent protests adults is usually justified by the fact that their son or daughter lacks the life experience.

However, as the boy and girl run the risk of never receive the proper skills (and make friends with immaturity) if under any circumstances to think and decide for them will be caring parents.

Children’s independence and initiative

Of course, dads and moms with a certain degree of fear waiting for the moment when the ship is their baby, giving one a tiny mooring rope, becomes a little more independent from parent’s Wharf.

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