” Mom, I’m scared! — with a shout and cry ran into the parent’s bedroom a little Pasha. Clinging to his mother’s breast, he babbled:
— There… dark… under the bed… terrible…
Mom put her son beside him, patted on the head, and he immediately fell asleep.
— Lisa, so not, — said in a whisper dad, Anatoly Vasiliev. — so You will want to grow up the son of a weakling and a rag. Nothing to appease his fears. Or do you want him to 18 years old slept with us in the same bed?
— what do you suggest? — offended Lisa. — to Lock him in the room — and let him cry into hysterics? You know, better to let the wuss and wuss than neurotic or schizophrenic.
— I Agree, this is also not an option. But then what to do?
— Go to sleep… Tomorrow go ask your mom. It is after all a teacher has worked all her life, have an understanding of child psychology.
The next day on a visit to Vasiliev came grandmother, Elena. After playing with his grandson and putting him for a NAP, she listened to the arguments of both parents, smiled and began her story. — Ah, youth, how I understand you. Because the problem of children’s fears faced by all parents, and my grandfather is no exception. Here you are, Continue reading
Your child falls under all 10 signs «Indigo»? And you bring up?
The term «Indigo» first appeared in the late 90s thanks to a female psychic Nancy Ann tappe, who claimed that these «new» kids purple aura color, Indigo. Supposedly came to earth new extraterrestrial generation of people. And with its easy hand pseudoscientific term was used to name the kids, which combines a high level of intelligence with extraordinary sensitivity, besides allegedly telepathic abilities are complementary to each other. Today about Indigo filmed many movies and many books, but no scientific proof of the correctness of the psychic, of course not. So who are still children, Indigo?
«Indigo» — buzzword or reality?
All signs Indigo (10) psychiatrists and teachers relate more to the usual hyperactivity, which have many children. But psychologists believe that the term «Indigo» is a kind of convenient excuse for parents who simply can not cope with the child. And especially popularly called «Indigo» their offspring in a rich family, where the latter is out of bounds, but somehow to affect them educationally does not work. «He I – Indigo» proudly declare such moms and dads dazed by the audacity and unscrupulousness master kids guest.
And, interestingly, every other mom, as soon as procet a list of signs Continue reading
Feeling a sense of loss, resentment, adolescents still be able to adequately imagine the causes and consequences of divorce, the quality of their relationships with each parent. Boys in most cases, experiencing negative feelings towards his father and strongly attached to his mother. In girls in relation to mother appear critical notes: “For not watching, it is clear why dad left”. Sometimes admire his new girlfriend.
Every parent should discuss with the child his feelings, persuade and words and actions that neither one of the parents will. The child needs to communicate with relatives and mother’s side and father’s side, with their peers, actively participate in public and social life, exercise. It is very important to help the child to find an area of success where children can realize their potential and abilities. This allows you to escape from unpleasant thoughts, enhances self-esteem, does not allow the child to withdraw into themselves.
TIPS FOR PARENTS
v If the divorce was not by mutual consent, if one of the spouses traumatized by the divorce left him, some children are traumatized even more. They see the suffering that dear one them people brought as well a dear person. And love-they are both parents. They can’t be not on any side, and parents often expect the children stand Continue reading