” Mom, I’m scared! — with a shout and cry ran into the parent’s bedroom a little Pasha. Clinging to his mother’s breast, he babbled:
— There… dark… under the bed… terrible…
Mom put her son beside him, patted on the head, and he immediately fell asleep.
— Lisa, so not, — said in a whisper dad, Anatoly Vasiliev. — so You will want to grow up the son of a weakling and a rag. Nothing to appease his fears. Or do you want him to 18 years old slept with us in the same bed?
— what do you suggest? — offended Lisa. — to Lock him in the room — and let him cry into hysterics? You know, better to let the wuss and wuss than neurotic or schizophrenic.
— I Agree, this is also not an option. But then what to do?
— Go to sleep… Tomorrow go ask your mom. It is after all a teacher has worked all her life, have an understanding of child psychology.
The next day on a visit to Vasiliev came grandmother, Elena. After playing with his grandson and putting him for a NAP, she listened to the arguments of both parents, smiled and began her story. — Ah, youth, how I understand you. Because the problem of children’s fears faced by all parents, and my grandfather is no exception. Here you are, Continue reading
When I come back mentally in my own childhood, I have always before my eyes there is a picture, as I was, still a toddler, playing on the floor with blocks with her older sister. She shows me different pictures shown on different faces of the toy, and I can not understand the principle of the location of the pictures. And trying to find especially liked the Fox with despair roll the dice on the floor and raise it again. I remember my sister taking a toy in his hands, showed me how you can flip the face of the cube, looking favourite. And mine, with nothing comparable to the excitement that I learned how to search for images.
Since then, sad to say, many years, but when I had a daughter I wanted her as often as possible in their childhood experienced the tremendous delight of recognition of something new and unknown. That is why, starting with the first months of her life, I am very actively engaged in developmental activities for children.
The first game
When my daughter was three weeks, I decided it was time to open the front of her magical world of the game. Having tried a whole bunch of various techniques and having studied many of the recommendations that we identified about a dozen games, training which did not require special Continue reading
Education is the systematic targeting of the child’s adult family members and family structure. The main common task of education – preparing children for life in existing social conditions; more narrow, concrete – mastering of knowledge, abilities and skills required for the normal formation of personality in the family.
Goals and means of education due to the socio-economic structure, level of cultural development; family education is usually based on ideology, morality, and relationships of the social layer to which belongs the family.
Family education is inextricably linked with the self-education of adults, their qualities and character traits that ensure effective teaching impact on children.
It’s okay if to slap the child or give him a slap: not painful and effective. Nobody has ever managed to learn through physical punishment. With it you can only suppress, force, but not to teach. By the way, in the end, the children prefer to get a few licks than listening to the endless cries of parents, reproaches and grunts. So this is only the situation when one nonsense replaces another, not giving a result. Permanent physical punishment inhibit the activity contribute to the development of neuroses and fears that threaten physical and mental development. Moreover, it is forbidden Continue reading