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How to raise children according to the rules?

Very important for parents is knowing the rules of application of methods of education, which A. S. Makarenko called “tool touch of personality”.

All methods of education scientists psychophysiological basis, or the mechanism that operates at the subconscious level. Ignoring it may lead to unpredictable results, so parents need to visualize how they applied the method may have an impact on the consciousness and behavior of the child.

The most common methods of raising children are a positive example, story, conversation, debate, teach, exercise, encouragement and punishment.

In Soviet pedagogy was considered to be the most effective methods of persuasion — a story, a conversation, a debate, otherwise known as verbal. Trusting such a scientific recommendations parents naively believed that after same notations naughty child will certainly improve.

The children perceived tedious instructions how soul-destroying occupation, and the outer reaction “of the object of education” did not reflect internal relationships. The child may exhibit ostentatious attention, but, according to psychologists, if he looks over the top of the head of an adult, he is busy with his own thoughts, imaginations; if downward, the soul vehemently argues, rejects the arguments of the parents, as if staring straight into the eyes and even nods, then Continue reading

Child Education

Education is the systematic targeting of the child’s adult family members and family structure. The main common task of education – preparing children for life in existing social conditions; more narrow, concrete – mastering of knowledge, abilities and skills required for the normal formation of personality in the family.

Goals and means of education due to the socio-economic structure, level of cultural development; family education is usually based on ideology, morality, and relationships of the social layer to which belongs the family.

Family education is inextricably linked with the self-education of adults, their qualities and character traits that ensure effective teaching impact on children.

It’s okay if to slap the child or give him a slap: not painful and effective. Nobody has ever managed to learn through physical punishment. With it you can only suppress, force, but not to teach. By the way, in the end, the children prefer to get a few licks than listening to the endless cries of parents, reproaches and grunts. So this is only the situation when one nonsense replaces another, not giving a result. Permanent physical punishment inhibit the activity contribute to the development of neuroses and fears that threaten physical and mental development. Moreover, it is forbidden Continue reading

How to talk with your child about dad?

How to talk with your child about dad, if dad never or very rarely comes to visit the baby? This question bothers many divorced moms. Ready-made solutions no. The easiest way to tell fictional stories. Sometimes, the stories of the popes-the pilots or sailors moms replace the history of failed marriages… Another option is the Pope-the scoundrels who left mom and child. Both, alas, does not make the child happier. How not to go to extremes? Psychologists offer some guidance.

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Love mom and dad – that’s all a child really important. If one parent is not around, for the child is a serious loss. In the framework of the child’s logic, the absence of the Pope interpreted this way: “I was bad, so dad left me.” My mother’s task is to convey to the child all the love to him for some reason, not reached. Would be great to show your child photos of his father, to tell how mom and dad met and were waiting for his appearance. For crumbs is important to know that mom and dad loved each other, and therefore they had such a nice and wonderful child.

The belief that “I am the fruit of love”, helps the child feel good. And here are the details of separation of the parents is not worth telling, as this baby is not concerned. You can just Continue reading

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The Education of children
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How to talk with your child about dad?
How to talk with your child about dad, if dad never or very rarely comes to visit the baby? This question bothers many divorced moms. Ready-made solutions no. The easiest…

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