The Montessori method or «help me to do it myself»
Most modern moms and dads, with a shudder remembering the rigors of kindergarten teachers with a team vote or teachers, who forced students to walk in a circle during recess, with understanding and preference are become very popular in recent years the methods of Maria Montessori.
Maria Montessori was an Italian educator and the first woman-doctor — created my own special technique that allows for the education of children. Today it is studied almost all educational institutions do not only our country but the whole world. Many kindergartens today are embracing the Montessori method, which gives significant effects compared to traditional programs.
The fact is that modern society has finally seen that the traditional system is not ideal for the upbringing of the younger generation. That is why there is such keen interest in Montessori. To date the understanding of the inner world of the child this woman and her ideas regarding assistance for its development and formation as a person was very important.
The essence of the method by Maria Montessori
The basis of the method consists in order to include your child in interesting activities. Continue reading
“Stop bitching!” “I forbid you!” “You watch it!?” “Don’t insult me!” and many more exclamations addressed to the child, often proceed from our lips. Why are we yelling at your child when he is naughty, or from their lyubopytno learns, and goes wherever he is banned?
What are the reasons that we’re yelling at your crumbs, sometimes even spanking?
So let’s speculate over the cause of our cry to the child. Well — the first and main reason in us adults — we don’t know how to control it.
Here are a few reasons for this child’s education:
*Education cries because us the same method was raised.
*Parent thinks that he is raising a child, and this method shows a main, thus thinking they have the right, at any nurturing.
*Mom or dad, just not ready to face difficulties. Not ready for that child, despite the mood mom or dad may require attention, or to explore the world as he wants.
*Another reason is, the fatigue and the ability to adequately respond to the demands or whims of the child.
*The parent has his or her own concerns, interests, which are apparently more important than the child.
In General, for many reasons, can be listed as an individual case, as a psychological barrier.
Cry on whims or disobedience of the child, this is not a method of education. By this method we show Continue reading
When we draw, we are most actively working the right hemisphere of the brain. And it was there that focus on intuition, creative thinking, imagination and other irrational ‘stuff’.
Psychologists, parapsychologists and esoterica agree that our subconscious knows everything about us. It keeps the secret of our past (some experts believe that the past incarnations of the soul), about the future, about the causes of our failures, fears, or, conversely, about the hidden reserves of the organism, talents and abilities. All secret becomes obvious, when a person, without thinking, started to draw. Especially brightly this phenomenon occurs in children. Want to know what’s bothering your child that lurks in his subconscious that prevents him in life or what is able to unleash his talents, relieve stress, eliminate fears? Give him a sheet of paper and crayons and ask them to draw pictures of their family. When the picture is ready, You will be able to interpret the following text, which is designed by specialists in family psychology .
If the figure of the child depicted not only family members but also other strangers, this may mean that the baby lacks the close and warm relationship with their parents. He subconsciously looking for someone who is able to meet your needs.
Note the color of the picture. Continue reading