After divorce relationship between the parents of a child is often aggravated and take the sharp nature of communication: resentment, recrimination, regret about the past time.
Some mothers in this situation have chosen the strategy of “out of sight, out of mind”. However, solving their psychological issues, is unacceptable from a human and legal point of view to make the same decision for the child.
In more than 90 % of cases after divorce the child is left to live with her mother. Such statistics are attributed to the well-established tradition, according to which the education of the child is perceived by society primarily as the responsibility of the mother, and the belief that fathers can not fully take care of the baby. Such a stereotype is transmitted from generation to generation and generates as a result of irresponsibility on the part of many fathers in relation to their children and at the same time mother’s unwavering belief in the sole “right of child”.
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Is it possible to teach love and patience for 30 hours, found out the correspondent “RG” School for foster parents today are created in the country for more than three years working in the Samara region, 80 percent of foster children in the Samara region, crossing the threshold of adulthood, continue to reside in which they have become family homes. Taking the family to the child, one should not expect immediate appreciation.
Psychologist Samara city centre “Family” Elena Tonkobaeva says that the establishment of such schools was that collected together the questions which are often asked in the consultation adoptive parents, who already has children. Among the main problems were: lying, stealing, sloppiness, learning difficulties due to mental retardation, conflicts with the native child.
After analyzing the picture, I realized that most foster parents do not have enough knowledge of the basics of developmental psychology. To this decided to add and practical skills required in family education.
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Children – flowers of life. But if you do not care about their education, it can lead to very dire consequences. And special attention should be paid to lie. And why, in General, children lie? And what to do in this case?
Why are they doing it?
Why the child is lying? The reasons may be different:
Fantasy. Small children love to dream, and often don’t see the borders between reality and the fictional world. So the kid may not know that he is lying, as he will believe in their lies. But, as a rule, 5-6 years, these boundaries become more clear and meaningful, so the child begins to realize that not telling the truth.
Fear. If kid did something wrong, then he probably knows what this could entail punishment. And to avoid it, the child will hide the truth.
Lying may be a way to attract the attention of parents. Yes, if mom and dad do not pay child attention or paying too little time, he can lie. And the child knows what will be punished, but the punishment is already a manifestation of attention from parents.
Protest against restrictions and the way to avoid them. Yes, about 7-8 years child begins to understand that some bans parents much in the way to enjoy life. And, realizing this, the child begins to find ways of bypassing the restrictions and realize that mom and dad don’t Continue reading