The love for a child – the infinite, sincere and full of feeling. And above all it must come from both parents, to be a real, strong, clear, only then it can be considered complete.
Whatever it was this love, she will never be over, as long as it was manifested in abundance. Always tell your child how much you love it, praise and appreciate him for the work done, talk about how you are happy that you have it. Exactly this love is not enough children from orphanages, these children often get sick and fall behind. Each of us can help these children and to carry a piece of your attention, love and care . Even if it will manifest itself in all sorts of Goodies, sweets, from which no child will refuse. You can also bring to the orphanage toys, new things or clothes your child, from which it grew. Your children’s flea market will be adopted with a Bang!
Scientists believe that abandoned children suddenly die in infancy from lack of parental love and affection, attention and care. Never believe what a parent’s love spoils and pampers children, only your permissiveness, the lack of rules and boundaries contributes to the disobedience of the baby. Therefore, to avoid this it is necessary to correct children’s early development.
Depending on the composition of the relatives are the following types of families:
is a simple family — couple with children, unmarried;
– advanced, or complex family — if some of the children are married; may include three or more generations living together and linked by common management;
– full family is composed of both spouses;
– incomplete family in which one spouse is absent.
Some of these families is best suited for the education, it is impossible to answer unequivocally. In any one of them have their advantages and disadvantages. For example, in an ordinary family children get used to more independence, but it quickly violated the tradition of generations in comparison with the extended family. In comparison with the full family, single-parent family education is complicated by reducing the material level of the family and overload of the parent with whom left children. However, children in such families are imbued with sympathy for the remaining parent, become more emotionally intimate and responsible.
The diversity of the families are classified by type relations between adults and children, as well as by the degree of their tension and consequences effects on children:
Family, respectful children. In such families, relationships Continue reading
Parents wonder why their child is lying, because in their family, this behavior is not practiced.Other parents just burn with shame for their child, lie their baby becomes public property, have already learned teachers or educators. There are among parents and those who are completely deluded by their child’s behavior. They admit that they don’t know what to believe and what not.
But what would have been the reaction of parents to lie to children, the ratio is always unambiguously negative. And the question of what to do and how to wean the child to lie, to tell lies and mislead others in, is very relevant.
A psychologist come when all known methods have been tried. A request or an order “Stop lying!”, the child was ignored, physical punishment does not have the desired effect, and the threats were not heeded. To understand what to do in situations when your child is cheating, let’s see, why and why he does it.
As I said, children lying is a very common phenomenon, but in each case it’s always a unique story. However, in most cases, a lie is a consequence Continue reading