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The child’s relationship with the father after divorce

After divorce relationship between the parents of a child is often aggravated and take the sharp nature of communication: resentment, recrimination, regret about the past time.

Some mothers in this situation have chosen the strategy of “out of sight, out of mind”. However, solving their psychological issues, is unacceptable from a human and legal point of view to make the same decision for the child.

In more than 90 % of cases after divorce the child is left to live with her mother. Such statistics are attributed to the well-established tradition, according to which the education of the child is perceived by society primarily as the responsibility of the mother, and the belief that fathers can not fully take care of the baby. Such a stereotype is transmitted from generation to generation and generates as a result of irresponsibility on the part of many fathers in relation to their children and at the same time mother’s unwavering belief in the sole “right of child”.

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The Child after the divorce.

Going to file for divorce and want a minor child is left to live with You, because they have the best material and housing conditions? Go towards the court? It is possible.

Family code of the Russian Federation establishes the right of the child to live and grow up in a family, to know their parents and to be cared for by parents and shared with them accommodation, but often in our lives, the opposite is true, and parents have to divorce.

According to article 61 of the Family code “ Parents have equal rights and bear equal responsibilities towards their children (parental right) ”. If the parents cannot come to an agreement about the exercise of parental rights, the dispute is settled by the court, upon the request of one or both parents, with the participation of body of guardianship and guardianship. To disputes connected with education of children: the debate about the place of residence of the child when the parents live apart (paragraph 3 of article 65 of the RF IC); on the implementation of the parental rights of the parent living separately from the child (paragraph 2 of article 66 of the family code); the elimination of obstacles to communicating with a child of his close relatives ( section 3 of article 67 of the family code); the return of the child’s parents held not on the basis of law or judicial Continue reading

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Is it possible to teach love and patience for 30 hours, found out the correspondent “RG” School for foster parents today are created in the country for more than three years working in the Samara region, 80 percent of foster children in the Samara region, crossing the threshold of adulthood, continue to reside in which they have become family homes. Taking the family to the child, one should not expect immediate appreciation.

Psychologist Samara city centre “Family” Elena Tonkobaeva says that the establishment of such schools was that collected together the questions which are often asked in the consultation adoptive parents, who already has children. Among the main problems were: lying, stealing, sloppiness, learning difficulties due to mental retardation, conflicts with the native child.

After analyzing the picture, I realized that most foster parents do not have enough knowledge of the basics of developmental psychology. To this decided to add and practical skills required in family education.

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