Today, many parents want to provide their child with the harmonious and comprehensive development. But to understand all the stream rushed upon us like an avalanche systems and methods is very difficult. Doman’s cards, cubes Zaitseva, Waldorf system, the Montessori method. the list is long.
So how not to get lost in all this variety?
First of all, you need to clearly understand what a particular method. And then to make an informed decision. In this article we will discuss now one of the most popular systems of education and development of the child — the Montessori method.
The author is Maria Montessori (1870-1952), an Italian educator and humanist. The most important, fundamental, and conveys the essence of the method is the motto. “Help me to do it myself” .
The great importance of Maria Montessori gave the period of development of the baby from 0 to 6 years. It is believed that during this period is the most intense development of the child, during which there are special times when the baby is particularly susceptible to any particular activity.
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The formation of personality . Socialization of personality. It is the family is the primary educator of the child. Not school, not the street, not peers and not psychologists. They can correct a child’s behavior, but the effect of their influence is directly proportional to the influence of those closest to you.
From early childhood, from moms and dads, grandmas and grandpas the person learns the patterns of behavior, attitudes, values, knowledge and skills, which later comes into society.
And how he was raised, socialized, influence on how the child will become in the future – confident or infantile, good or evil, peaceful or aggressive.
Who affect the child?
The formation of personality . socialization – this is the main task of parents in the upbringing of the child. The major and most challenging! Maybe because hardly anyone of us is professional. Even professionals, mistakes can happen. What can we say about such a complex profession as mother and father, which is nowhere taught.
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This question care most moms for generations. And he invariably lead to a whole range of other issues. First of all: when to begin to teach? And also: Which method to choose, the carrot or the stick? Continue to use diapers during this difficult process? What is considered normal and what is a deviation? How to be with nocturnal incontinence? Try to answer these questions together.
In the beginning of our conversation, I want to give one example from life. It includes all possible errors that can make a young inexperienced mother, trying to teach a child to potty.
Alla was only twenty when her life came Andrew, and exactly nine months later a little Slavik. It be caused by inexperience, or simple lack of the necessary literature, but, worn out with sliders and diapers, she decided to start prikazivati Slavik on the potty as early as nine months.
Slavik at first obediently sat thinking that this kind of game, a couple of times even got to the right place. For this mother praised him, and, satisfied with the first small victory, continued to sit son on the potty.
However, the process went into remission. The kid was bored for an hour and sometimes several hours to sit on the potty, and wanted to play, crawl and explore the world Continue reading