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Child Education

Education is the systematic targeting of the child’s adult family members and family structure. The main common task of education – preparing children for life in existing social conditions; more narrow, concrete – mastering of knowledge, abilities and skills required for the normal formation of personality in the family.

Goals and means of education due to the socio-economic structure, level of cultural development; family education is usually based on ideology, morality, and relationships of the social layer to which belongs the family.

Family education is inextricably linked with the self-education of adults, their qualities and character traits that ensure effective teaching impact on children.

It’s okay if to slap the child or give him a slap: not painful and effective. Nobody has ever managed to learn through physical punishment. With it you can only suppress, force, but not to teach. By the way, in the end, the children prefer to get a few licks than listening to the endless cries of parents, reproaches and grunts. So this is only the situation when one nonsense replaces another, not giving a result. Permanent physical punishment inhibit the activity contribute to the development of neuroses and fears that threaten physical and mental development. Moreover, it is forbidden Continue reading

How to talk with your child about dad?

How to talk with your child about dad, if dad never or very rarely comes to visit the baby? This question bothers many divorced moms. Ready-made solutions no. The easiest way to tell fictional stories. Sometimes, the stories of the popes-the pilots or sailors moms replace the history of failed marriages… Another option is the Pope-the scoundrels who left mom and child. Both, alas, does not make the child happier. How not to go to extremes? Psychologists offer some guidance.

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Love mom and dad – that’s all a child really important. If one parent is not around, for the child is a serious loss. In the framework of the child’s logic, the absence of the Pope interpreted this way: “I was bad, so dad left me.” My mother’s task is to convey to the child all the love to him for some reason, not reached. Would be great to show your child photos of his father, to tell how mom and dad met and were waiting for his appearance. For crumbs is important to know that mom and dad loved each other, and therefore they had such a nice and wonderful child.

The belief that “I am the fruit of love”, helps the child feel good. And here are the details of separation of the parents is not worth telling, as this baby is not concerned. You can just Continue reading

Child steals: causes

Child theft is the so-called “shameful” problems. For any parent this is usually a shock: the child in the family because no one teaches them to steal, and he takes someone else’s…

This child’s behavior is perceived by the family as evidence of his incurable immorality. “We have no one in the family never did!” — I often hear from those affected relatives. Not only that, the child shames the family, the parents of his future is solely criminal. Though actually, in most cases, it’s not all bad.

The idea of what is “mine” and “theirs”, appears after three years, when he begins to develop a sense of self. Nobody in their right mind would call a thief two-three-year-old, who took without asking anyone’s thing. But the older the child, the more likely that his act would be regarded as an attempt to misappropriate, in other words — as “theft”.

The age of the child in such situation is conclusive evidence of awareness of the committed, although it is not always true. (There are known cases, when children are seven or eight years didn’t realize that by adopting someone’s thing, they violate the generally accepted norms, but sometimes, I have five children, committing theft, well aware that doing bad).

For example, could be considered a thief five year old boy who, feeling great sympathy to his peers, Continue reading

How to talk with your child about dad?
How to talk with your child about dad, if dad never or very rarely comes to visit the baby? This question bothers many divorced moms. Ready-made solutions no. The easiest…

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The Education of individual children preschool age
Nurturing independence in children of preschool age I want to quote the words of the great teacher of J. Korczak: "If you know how to determine the joy of a…

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37 tips on how to raise the child in peace and love
1. Your child is not responsible for your reaction. If you are prone to stress, you give in to anger, and it's not right. You can raise a child more…

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