“Stop bitching!” “I forbid you!” “You watch it!?” “Don’t insult me!” and many more exclamations addressed to the child, often proceed from our lips. Why are we yelling at your child when he is naughty, or from their lyubopytno learns, and goes wherever he is banned?
What are the reasons that we’re yelling at your crumbs, sometimes even spanking?
So let’s speculate over the cause of our cry to the child. Well — the first and main reason in us adults — we don’t know how to control it.
Here are a few reasons for this child’s education:
*Education cries because us the same method was raised.
*Parent thinks that he is raising a child, and this method shows a main, thus thinking they have the right, at any nurturing.
*Mom or dad, just not ready to face difficulties. Not ready for that child, despite the mood mom or dad may require attention, or to explore the world as he wants.
*Another reason is, the fatigue and the ability to adequately respond to the demands or whims of the child.
*The parent has his or her own concerns, interests, which are apparently more important than the child.
In General, for many reasons, can be listed as an individual case, as a psychological barrier.
Cry on whims or disobedience of the child, this is not a method of education. By this method we show Continue reading