Very important for parents is knowing the rules of application of methods of education, which A. S. Makarenko called “tool touch of personality”.
All methods of education scientists psychophysiological basis, or the mechanism that operates at the subconscious level. Ignoring it may lead to unpredictable results, so parents need to visualize how they applied the method may have an impact on the consciousness and behavior of the child.
The most common methods of raising children are a positive example, story, conversation, debate, teach, exercise, encouragement and punishment.
In Soviet pedagogy was considered to be the most effective methods of persuasion — a story, a conversation, a debate, otherwise known as verbal. Trusting such a scientific recommendations parents naively believed that after same notations naughty child will certainly improve.
The children perceived tedious instructions how soul-destroying occupation, and the outer reaction “of the object of education” did not reflect internal relationships. The child may exhibit ostentatious attention, but, according to psychologists, if he looks over the top of the head of an adult, he is busy with his own thoughts, imaginations; if downward, the soul vehemently argues, rejects the arguments of the parents, as if staring straight into the eyes and even nods, then Continue reading
How to talk with your child about dad, if dad never or very rarely comes to visit the baby? This question bothers many divorced moms. Ready-made solutions no. The easiest way to tell fictional stories. Sometimes, the stories of the popes-the pilots or sailors moms replace the history of failed marriages… Another option is the Pope-the scoundrels who left mom and child. Both, alas, does not make the child happier. How not to go to extremes? Psychologists offer some guidance.
Love mom and dad – that’s all a child really important. If one parent is not around, for the child is a serious loss. In the framework of the child’s logic, the absence of the Pope interpreted this way: “I was bad, so dad left me.” My mother’s task is to convey to the child all the love to him for some reason, not reached. Would be great to show your child photos of his father, to tell how mom and dad met and were waiting for his appearance. For crumbs is important to know that mom and dad loved each other, and therefore they had such a nice and wonderful child.
The belief that “I am the fruit of love”, helps the child feel good. And here are the details of separation of the parents is not worth telling, as this baby is not concerned. You can just Continue reading
To lose weight after giving birth — this problem concerns every woman. once parous. The joy of long-awaited birth of a baby is sometimes accompanied by sorrow over recruited during the pregnancy pounds. Time passes and the excess weight goes away. How to lose weight after childbirth?
About this readers MedPulse tells the doctor the lion Sanchakou.
— Why is this happening? Why you have to think about how to lose weight after childbirth?
— Start with the fact that not all mothers are overweight while waiting for the child and are thinking about losing weight after childbirth. Physiological norms, during pregnancy a woman can gain about 8-10 pounds. From them, she naturally gets rid of during childbirth and the postpartum period. But, unfortunately, very often moms exceed this figure, gaining up to 20 extra pounds while waiting for the child. And so to return to your normal weight and lose weight after childbirth becomes difficult.
There are several reasons. First, it is believed that the expectant mother should eat as much as possible — “for two”. So many women during pregnancy cease to follow a balanced diet and allow yourself to relax, earning it the needs of the future baby. But this is not so. Moreover, the mother is gaining weight, significantly increases the load Continue reading