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What to do if your child is constantly lying?

Children – flowers of life. But if you do not care about their education, it can lead to very dire consequences. And special attention should be paid to lie. And why, in General, children lie? And what to do in this case?

Why are they doing it?

Why the child is lying? The reasons may be different:

Fantasy. Small children love to dream, and often don’t see the borders between reality and the fictional world. So the kid may not know that he is lying, as he will believe in their lies. But, as a rule, 5-6 years, these boundaries become more clear and meaningful, so the child begins to realize that not telling the truth.

Fear. If kid did something wrong, then he probably knows what this could entail punishment. And to avoid it, the child will hide the truth.

Lying may be a way to attract the attention of parents. Yes, if mom and dad do not pay child attention or paying too little time, he can lie. And the child knows what will be punished, but the punishment is already a manifestation of attention from parents.

Protest against restrictions and the way to avoid them. Yes, about 7-8 years child begins to understand that some bans parents much in the way to enjoy life. And, realizing this, the child begins to find ways of bypassing the restrictions and realize that mom and dad don’t Continue reading

The Love of parents is the program

Parents and children

Our instinctive love of children (ethologists would say — parental care) we are not alone in the animal world. In many species, parents attached to their children. Often, it is only to his own. Gull, great mom, biting and can even kill the alien chick, wandered on her colognebuy territory. And to wander long in the colony, all nests nearby. There are people (and quite a lot of them, usually they just hide it) who also love their children. But in most people there is another love — the love of children in General. Other people’s children. And this, from the point of view of the instinctive programs, not one and the same. When it originated and what was? This is a very interesting story, and it leads us to the emergence of man. Our closest relatives — the great apes — the way of life of its collectors, and as our direct ancestors. They don’t live in herds, and a very small kinship groups. And it is clear: major collector to anything big, hard-organized herd. Everyone gathers for himself, and not a lot of food will collect, collect if around others. You have many instinctive programs corresponding to this lifestyle: territorialism with his desire not to let outsiders into their territory, the instinct Continue reading

Child Education

Education is the systematic targeting of the child’s adult family members and family structure. The main common task of education – preparing children for life in existing social conditions; more narrow, concrete – mastering of knowledge, abilities and skills required for the normal formation of personality in the family.

Goals and means of education due to the socio-economic structure, level of cultural development; family education is usually based on ideology, morality, and relationships of the social layer to which belongs the family.

Family education is inextricably linked with the self-education of adults, their qualities and character traits that ensure effective teaching impact on children.

It’s okay if to slap the child or give him a slap: not painful and effective. Nobody has ever managed to learn through physical punishment. With it you can only suppress, force, but not to teach. By the way, in the end, the children prefer to get a few licks than listening to the endless cries of parents, reproaches and grunts. So this is only the situation when one nonsense replaces another, not giving a result. Permanent physical punishment inhibit the activity contribute to the development of neuroses and fears that threaten physical and mental development. Moreover, it is forbidden Continue reading

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