I want parents to their beloved child, growing up, from year to year made samostoyatelna? Still! Independence preschool child – this trait is highly appreciated, but many father and mother approve of child’s independence only when it is relevant for them.
Independence of a child strangled by parents!
“Yes let them grow up free and independent, but obey mom and dad, because our word is law!”
This Directive maintains an internal contradiction. Because the notion of children’s autonomy involves the ability to make decisions yourself, and not under a bushel of someone’s tips and thoughts.
Violent protests adults is usually justified by the fact that their son or daughter lacks the life experience.
However, as the boy and girl run the risk of never receive the proper skills (and make friends with immaturity) if under any circumstances to think and decide for them will be caring parents.
Children’s independence and initiative
Of course, dads and moms with a certain degree of fear waiting for the moment when the ship is their baby, giving one a tiny mooring rope, becomes a little more independent from parent’s Wharf.
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A variety of parenting techniques, parents can apply depending on the characteristics, behaviour and age of the child. To apply and to choose the methods of parents depends on their level of psychological and pedagogical knowledge, and how they themselves were brought up, etc.
The choice of methods of education of children affected by the behavior of parents, who may be ambivalent, authoritarian and democratic.
These methods form not only a Mature person, complete harmony, they sometimes become the cause of various psychological complexes.
The main methods used in the education of children.
Method of persuasion and conversation. This method is used in the education of children with any character and at different ages. In conversation with children, parents argue and explain how to properly maintain in a variety of situations, figuring out the motivations of the child. The tone of the conversation parents have to be firm and confident calm. Even kids at the age of one year, not knowing how else to respond, carefully listen to their parents, responding to their intonation.
Method of positive reinforcement. Reinforcements are some parental actions that follow his deeds and actions. Reinforcement is positive (positive) and negative. Positive reinforcement we include Continue reading
Children’s educational psychologist — a specialist whose professional responsibilities include the examination, diagnosis and treatment of abnormalities in the formation of personality and behavior of children. A good child psychologist takes into account all of the factors in their interaction, because the child has to face different challenges, which together can cause disease. For children’s educational psychologist it is important to consider each case in specific circumstances.
Children’s therapist — a doctor involved in the identification and treatment of disorders of psychogenic origin. The competence of a child psychotherapist differs significantly from adult competence of the doctor, because in the treatment of children must take into account many other factors: age, stage of development and physiological and mental functions, conditions of education and training.
Children’s therapist works in two directions:
clinical psychotherapy (diagnosis and treatment of somatic, border, and mental illness);
personality-oriented psychotherapy (changing attitudes to ourselves, to others and to the world).
Despite the sometimes dismissive attitude of parents to psychotherapy and psychologists, Continue reading